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Reason answers a single, brutal question:
Why does this deal exist at all?
Most presales work fails because this question is never properly asked. Instead, SEs inherit momentum. Meetings happen
because calendars are full. Demos are booked because silence feels risky. PoCs start because “that’s the process.” Activity
becomes the substitute for intent.
Reason cuts through that.
A real Reason is not a feature request or a desire to “see the platform.” It is the intersection of a business problem, a
consequence for not fixing it, and a belief that change is possible. Without all three, you don’t have a deal — you have
motion.
The most practical way to uncover Reason is through the Three Whys.
Why Anything?
Why are they talking to vendors at all? This surfaces real pain. Not curiosity. Not benchmarking. Pain that repeats,
causes friction, and belongs to someone who feels it. If there’s no meaningful problem, there is no Reason.
Why Now?
Why has this become important now? This reveals pressure. Deadlines, risk, executive attention, or external events. If
nothing bad happens by doing nothing, momentum is an illusion and PoVs will drift until they die quietly.
Why Us?
Why are we in the room? This tests direction. If they can’t articulate what makes you relevant, you’re likely free
education or a comparison slide in someone else’s deck.
When an SE can clearly answer all three Whys, Reason becomes solid. When they can’t, the correct response isn’t to
push harder — it’s to pause.
Reason isn’t politeness. It’s protection: It protects your time, your forecast, and ultimately, your credibility.
Use prompts that force specificity:
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“What’s not working as well as it should
today?”
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“What are you compensating for manually?”
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“Where does this become someone’s problem
internally?”
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“What’s the thing that’s annoying enough that
it keeps coming up?”
Then apply pressure:
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“How often does that happen?”
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“Who feels it the most?”
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“What breaks when it goes wrong?”
Red flags
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“We’re just exploring”
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“We want to see what’s possible”
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“No major pain, just modernising”
Those aren’t reasons. They’re hobbies.
Green flags
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Repeated language (“every week”, “constantly”,
“always a problem”)
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Emotional leakage (frustration, defensiveness, blame)
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Clear ownership (“my team”, “I get dragged into
this”)
WHY ANYTHING?
Practical ways to surface it
You’re looking for external pressure or internal
consequence.
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“What’s changed recently?”
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“What made this a priority now?”
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“What happens if this slips to next quarter?”
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“Who’s asking for this?”
Red flags
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“We’ve been meaning to look at this for a while”
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“No fixed timeline yet”
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“Depends on budget”
Those aren’t reasons. They’re hobbies.
Green flags
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Deadlines tied to something real (audit, renewal,
contract, incident)
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Executive visibility
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A consequence they don’t control
WHY NOW?
Why are they talking to vendors at all? This surfaces real pain. Not curiosity. Not benchmarking. Pain
that repeats, causes friction, and belongs to someone who feels it. If there’s no meaningful problem, there
is no Reason.
Why has this become important now? This reveals pressure. Deadlines, risk, executive attention, or
external events. If nothing bad happens by doing nothing, momentum is an illusion and PoVs will drift
until they die quietly.
Practical ways to surface it
You’re testing direction, not ego.
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“What made you reach out to us specifically?”
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“What stood out compared to others?”
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“What would we need to be strong at for this
to work?”
Red flags
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“You were on a list”
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“We’re talking to everyone”
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“We saw you at a trade show”
Green flags
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They reference something unique you do
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They already believe you solve their problem
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They’re testing fit, not browsing capability
WHY US?
Why are we in the room? This tests direction. If they can’t articulate what makes you relevant, you’re
likely free education or a comparison slide in someone else’s deck.
“Why / So What” is how you find the edge of the deal.
The meeting invite said “Intro Call – 30 minutes.” No agenda, no context, just three names you didn’t recognise and a sales rep
who sounded cheerful enough to make it feel real. You joined on time. Cameras stayed off. There was the usual exchange about
weather and diaries, then the rep did what reps do and handed over with a friendly, “Maybe you can give a bit of colour.” So you
talked. High level, sensible, safe. You explained what the product did, what customers liked about it, where it usually fitted. You
asked what had prompted the conversation and were told they were “just looking around.” You asked what they wanted to improve
and got the word that never means anything: efficiency. Nobody disagreed. Nobody leaned in. You filled the remaining time with
more explanation, because silence feels like failure. When the clock ran down, the rep suggested a demo. The prospect said “sure.”
Everyone left the call feeling vaguely positive, which is the most dangerous feeling of all.
Two weeks later the demo slipped. Then it moved again. Then it didn’t happen at all. Emails slowed, then stopped. In the CRM it
became “no decision,” which felt unfair because nobody had actually decided anything. Looking back, the moment the answers
went vague was the moment the truth surfaced. There was no problem underneath the conversation, no consequence if nothing
changed, no reason for urgency. The meeting hadn’t failed; it had reached its natural edge. But instead of recognising that edge,
you stepped around it and kept talking. That’s how early meetings quietly kill deals. Not with conflict or rejection, but with
politeness, motion, and the shared agreement to pretend something exists when it doesn’t.
The meeting invite still said “Intro Call – 30 minutes.” Same lack of context, same unfamiliar names, same upbeat sales rep. You
joined expecting the usual polite drift. Cameras were off. Small talk happened. The rep did a quick intro and handed over with,
“Maybe you can give some colour.” You did — briefly. Enough to be credible, not enough to fill the space. When you asked what
prompted the conversation, the answer came back: “We’re just looking around.” You didn’t rush to rescue it. You followed it
instead. You asked what that meant in practice, and after a pause someone admitted that reporting was manual, slow, and always
caused arguments at month end. You let that land, then asked what happened when it went wrong. Another pause. Then: missed
deadlines, escalations, the same fire drill every quarter.
You stayed there. You didn’t jump to features. You didn’t explain how the product fixed it. You asked who felt that pain the most,
and suddenly one voice became clearer than the others. You asked what happened if they didn’t change anything this year. This
time the answer wasn’t comfortable. An audit was coming. The current workaround wouldn’t survive it. When the sales rep
suggested a demo near the end, it didn’t feel like a reflex. It felt earned. The prospect asked if the demo could focus on how
reporting worked across teams and whether it reduced reconciliation time. You said yes, but only after checking one thing: if the
demo proved that, would there be a real next step? There was.
Example #1:
Example #2:
It’s tempting to judge early meetings purely by outcome: did it progress, did it lead to a demo, did it turn into a deal.
By that measure, one of the stories that follows looks like a failure and the other like a success. In reality, they are
both wins. In one, the conversation reaches its natural limit quickly and quietly, saving months of wasted effort. In
the other, the same conversational pressure reveals real pain, real urgency, and a path forward. The difference isn’t
luck or skill in presenting, it’s the ability to follow Why and So what until the truth appears, and to stop when it
does.
Conclusion
Reason is what gives every presales activity permission to exist. It is not discovered by presenting well or following
process, but by applying gentle pressure through Why and So what until something real appears or doesn’t. When
Reason is strong, deals move with clarity and intent. When it isn’t, the most professional outcome is to stop early.
SEs who learn to value early truth as highly as late-stage wins protect their time, sharpen forecasts, and turn
presales from background activity into a force that actually drives revenue.
PRIORITY
The issue competes successfully against
other internal initiatives.
PRESSURE
Something makes delay risky,
uncomfortable, or politically dangerous.
PREFERENCE
Clear intent that you are relevant,
credible, and differentiated.
REASON
Four Pillars of REASON
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Reason is the foundation of the R.I.G.H.T framework. If it’s weak, everything that follows becomes noise: demos drift, PoVs sprawl, workshops go
nowhere, and forecasts turn into fiction.
PAIN
A real, specific problem someone
genuinely wants resolved.